It’s been 16 years, I have lived twice as many years without her than I have with her, and nothing can change that. Losing my mother in the boat accident on Lake Victoria has left a deep scar on my life. However, I have been very careful not to speak about it publicly before. For me it was mine and my family’s pain and nobody else’s business. I've always tried to keep it a closed subject. However, what I've learned as my life has taken a turn and taken me from Tanzania to the